教育孩子的艺术：习惯与鼓励 · 互动理解

Occasionally hearing melodious piano music, it is easy to think of my friend's grandson. Throughout the winter vacation, the child had a regular schedule under the supervision of his father: he would wake up as soon as the alarm clock rang, pack up and then rush off to practice the piano. Many parents criticize their children casually when they encounter them being careless and playful, always using words such as lazy and stupid, which forcefully put their children into a low mood. Never deliberately knock on the table to scare or lie to children; take young children to the hospital for injections, and when they meet a gentle nurse, give them more praise and less harsh punishment. Children around seven years old have immature minds. Choose appropriate education methods and patiently guide them to sort out their belongings. Do not doubt the child's potential for no reason, and prevent the child from becoming shy or blindly proud.

If you want to do a good job in the daily management of your children, parents must not be impatient. Never negate all your children's efforts just because of a small mistake, let alone lie to young children. Many children make frequent mistakes in the early stages of practicing piano. This is not because they are stupid by nature, but because they are too young. During the winter vacation, many parents learn to change their methods: praise their children promptly when they do well, and patiently correct minor carelessness. Gradually, their children will neither be shy nor blindly proud. When a child gets into a tantrum and knocks things on purpose, I help to calm the mood, which is more likely to achieve good results than blindly criticizing.