对话一：闹钟响了以后
李老师，我一听见闹钟响，就想起来我孙子寒假练钢琴的事。
Teacher Li, as soon as I hear the alarm clock ring, I think of my grandson practicing piano during winter vacation.他弹钢琴不是很棒吗？怎么又让你发愁了？
Isn’t he very good at playing piano? Why are you worried again?他父亲一叫他醒，他就赶着去厕所，回来以后又说太懒，不想练。
When his father wakes him up, he rushes to the bathroom. After coming back, he says he is too lazy and does not want to practice.千万别马上批评，更不要说他笨。这样会把孩子的心情弄坏。
Never criticize him right away, and do not say he is stupid. That will ruin the child’s mood.可是他有时候故意敲桌子，还假装手疼，像是在骗我们。
But sometimes he knocks on the table on purpose and pretends his hand hurts, as if he is cheating us.先别怀疑。七岁左右的儿童会害羞，也会怕自己弹错。
Do not suspect him first. Children around seven years old can be shy and afraid of playing wrong.那我来表扬他？比如说他今天整理乐谱很认真。
Then should I praise him? For example, I can say he organized the music sheets carefully today.对，表扬要合适。护士给孩子打针前，也常常先鼓励他们。
Yes, praise should be suitable. Before nurses give children shots, they often encourage them first.如果他粗心，我是不是可以提醒他慢一点，不要骄傲？
If he is careless, can I remind him to slow down and not be proud?可以。管理习惯要有耐心，批评少一点，孩子反而更愿意进步。
Yes. Managing habits requires patience. With less criticism, children may be more willing to improve.教养重在引导，而非苛责
偶然听见悠扬的弹钢琴琴声，王静瞬间想起来好友的孙子。孩子在寒假日复一日坚持练琴，表现十分棒。孩子的父亲十分注重作息管理，每天调好闹钟，铃声一响就叫孩子醒过来，收拾妥当再赶去练琴，就连去往厕所的时间都合理规划。不少家长遇到孩子犯错就随口批评，很容易把孩子的心态弄得低落。带年幼儿童去医院打针，遇见温柔的护士时，多给予表扬、少指责；千万不能故意敲打物品吓唬孩子，更不能用谎话骗小孩。七岁左右的孩子心智不成熟，若是总被贴上懒、笨、粗心的标签，要么变得自卑害羞，要么反向自大骄傲。教育要挑选合适的方法，家长静下心来陪伴引导，不必无端怀疑孩子的潜力。
Hearing the beautiful sound of piano by chance, Wang Jing instantly thought of her good friend's grandson. During winter vacation, the child practiced piano day after day and performed very well. His father paid close attention to routine management. Every day he set an alarm, and as soon as it rang, he woke the child, helped him get ready, and then rushed him to practice. Even the time for going to the restroom was planned reasonably. Many parents casually criticize children whenever they make mistakes, which can easily make a child's mindset low. When taking young children to the hospital for injections, if they meet a gentle nurse, give more praise and less blame. Never deliberately hit objects to frighten a child, and never deceive children with lies. Children around seven are not mentally mature. If they are always labeled lazy, stupid, or careless, they may either become inferior and shy or become proud in the opposite direction. Education requires choosing suitable methods. Parents should calm down, accompany, and guide their children, without groundlessly doubting their potential.
夸奖比指责更适合小朋友
偶然听见悠扬的弹钢琴乐曲，很容易想起来好友的孙子。整个寒假，孩子在父亲的督促下规律作息：闹钟一响立刻醒，收拾妥当再匆忙赶去练琴。不少家长遇到孩子粗心、贪玩就随口批评，总用懒、笨这类词语，硬生生把孩子心情弄低落。千万不要故意敲桌子吓唬、用假话骗孩子；带年幼儿童去医院打针，遇见温柔护士，多表扬、少苛责。七岁左右的小朋友心智稚嫩，选合适的教育方式，耐心引导孩子自己整理物品，不用无端怀疑孩子的潜力，避免孩子变得害羞或是盲目骄傲。
Occasionally hearing melodious piano music, it is easy to think of my friend's grandson. Throughout the winter vacation, the child had a regular schedule under the supervision of his father: he would wake up as soon as the alarm clock rang, pack up and then rush off to practice the piano. Many parents criticize their children casually when they encounter them being careless and playful, always using words such as lazy and stupid, which forcefully put their children into a low mood. Never deliberately knock on the table to scare or lie to children; take young children to the hospital for injections, and when they meet a gentle nurse, give them more praise and less harsh punishment. Children around seven years old have immature minds. Choose appropriate education methods and patiently guide them to sort out their belongings. Do not doubt the child's potential for no reason, and prevent the child from becoming shy or blindly proud.
好习惯靠慢慢培养
想要做好孩童日常管理，家长不能急躁。千万不要因为一次小失误就否定孩子全部努力，更不能用谎话骗年幼儿童。很多孩子练弹钢琴初期频频出错，不是天性笨，只是年纪偏小。寒假里不少家长学着换方式：孩子做得好及时表扬，出现小粗心耐心纠正，慢慢孩子既不会害羞，也不会盲目骄傲。遇到孩子闹脾气故意敲东西，我来帮忙疏导情绪，比一味批评更容易收获好效果。
If you want to do a good job in the daily management of your children, parents must not be impatient. Never negate all your children's efforts just because of a small mistake, let alone lie to young children. Many children make frequent mistakes in the early stages of practicing piano. This is not because they are stupid by nature, but because they are too young. During the winter vacation, many parents learn to change their methods: praise their children promptly when they do well, and patiently correct minor carelessness. Gradually, their children will neither be shy nor blindly proud. When a child gets into a tantrum and knocks things on purpose, I help to calm the mood, which is more likely to achieve good results than blindly criticizing.