对话:难道失败一次就放弃吗?
老师,我国际网球比赛输了,难道我真的不适合继续吗?
Teacher, I lost the international tennis match. Does that mean I am really not suited to continue?当然不是。失败只是暂时的结果,不能随便放弃理想。
Of course not. Failure is only a temporary result, and you should not casually give up your ideal.可是我流了很多汗,过程一点也不轻松,至少练了许多天。
But I sweated a lot, the process was not easy at all, and I practiced for many days at least.正因为这样,你更要勇敢面对。通过总结,才能找到正确方法。
Because of that, you need to face it even more bravely. Only through summary can you find the correct method.当时我主意太乱,赢了一局就以为能取胜。
At that time my thoughts were too disordered. After winning one game, I thought I could win the match.这就是经历的价值。作家写一篇好文章,也要修改很多次。
This is the value of experience. A writer also needs to revise many times to write a good article.那我可以先休息,吃点饼干,再重新练习吗?
Then can I rest first, eat some cookies, and then practice again?可以。轻松一下没问题,但要记住:区别高手和普通人的,常常是坚持到底。
Yes. Relaxing a little is fine, but remember: what often distinguishes strong players from ordinary people is persistence to the end.失败不是终点,过程也有价值
小林立志成为一名作家,怀揣写作理想报名国际征文赛事。备战期间,他推掉休闲玩乐,饿了就啃几片饼干,伏案写完一篇又一篇文稿。当时满心笃定,认真打磨就一定能赢,可最终评选结果却是落选失败。失落的他一度想要放弃,随便推翻全部写作主意。 老师开导:难道一次失利就全盘否定所有过程?通过梳理全文,对比获奖作品,找到行文的区别与短板才是关键。可是多数人只盯着名次,忽略成长。小林静下心总结过往经历,取优秀范文的长处,修正不正确的写法。他明白失利只是暂时,至少收获写作经验,勇敢面对短板,文笔才能一步步上水准。
Xiao Lin was determined to become a writer and signed up for an international essay competition with his writing dream. During preparation, he gave up leisure activities. When hungry, he ate a few biscuits, and he sat at his desk writing draft after draft. At that time, he firmly believed that careful polishing would surely lead to a win. Yet the final result was failure. Feeling disappointed, he once wanted to give up and casually overturn all his writing ideas. His teacher guided him: can one loss really deny the entire process? The key is to sort through the whole text, compare it with winning works, and find differences and weaknesses in the writing. However, most people only stare at rankings and ignore growth. Xiao Lin calmed down, summarized his past experience, learned from excellent model essays, and corrected incorrect writing methods. He understood that failure is only temporary. At least he had gained writing experience. Only by bravely facing weaknesses can his writing improve step by step.
一次失利不代表全盘白费
不少小朋友练网球,练到满身是汗就想随便放弃,难道一次赛场失败,就要丢掉心中理想?当时小林一心想成为作家,参加国际征文落选后,差点推翻全部写作主意,可细细复盘才明白,过程里积攒的经历远比一次比赛结果珍贵。通过对比获奖文稿,总结自己和优秀作品的区别,取别人写作优点,修正不正确的写法。就算成绩只是暂时落后,至少学到实用技巧,脚踏实地坚持,文笔慢慢上水平。
Many children practice tennis and want to give up casually until they are covered in sweat. Does it mean that if they fail on the court, they will give up their ideals? At that time, Xiao Lin wanted to become a writer. After he failed to participate in the international essay competition, he almost gave up all his writing ideas. However, after careful review, he realized that the experience accumulated in the process is far more valuable than the result of a competition. By comparing the award-winning manuscripts, summarize the differences between your own and excellent works, take advantage of others' writing, and correct incorrect writing methods. Even if your grades are only temporarily behind, at least you will learn practical skills, stay down-to-earth, and slowly improve your writing skills.
零食和练球里的成长哲理
训练疲惫时啃几片饼干补充体力,是很多网球爱好者的日常。训练看似不轻松,可是每一滴汗都在悄悄提升实力。有人只盯着能不能赢,一遇失败就随便更改原定主意,忽略全程收获。通过一次次复盘总结,看清自身短板,勇敢 面对不足,才是成长关键。难道一次不如意,就要直接放弃长久的理想 ?多数人的进步,都是在一次次暂时的失利中慢慢上台阶。
It is a daily routine for many tennis enthusiasts to eat a few cookies to replenish their energy when they are tired from training. Training may not seem easy, but every drop of sweat is quietly improving your strength. Some people only focus on whether they can win and change their original minds when they encounter failure, ignoring the gains throughout the process. Through review and summary again and again, the key to growth is to see clearly one's own shortcomings and face the shortcomings bravely. Is it necessary to give up long-term ideals if you are not satisfied once? Most people's progress is achieved through temporary failures.